Archive for October, 2013
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This business should be shut down its wrong in so many ways this shit makes no sense.
Tags: fear, life, living
The greatest fear is the fear of failure people limit themselves to a box because fear poisons there thoughts. You won’t apply for the job because you think you’re not good enough or he is scared to talk to her because she will reject him. failure and rejection are a part of living making the greatest steeping stones but in order to get to the steeping stone you have to be willing to take a risk and move forward fear can be a friend and an enemy hell it just depends on how you use it for example you don’t fear the lions so you jump in the cage with them and get what a dumb ass person gets when they invade a lions personal space destroyed that’s when not having fear can get you killed but here is when fear can help you times are hard and you think about robbing a bank but you fear the outcome if you get caught .it also depends on your way of living I read this book called millionaire minds and one thing all the millionaires had in common was the fear of not trying and it makes sense because you have some people out here that fear taking risk and that leads to having regrets fear has allot of faces some good some bad I’m not saying walk around in constant fear but just don’t ignore it completely because the cousin of fear can also be common sense.
FIVE QUESTIONS YOU SHOULD ASK YOURSELF BEFORE HAVING SEX WITH SOMEONE Read more: 5 Questions to Ask Yourself Before Sex – Marie Claire Follow us: @marieclaire on Twitter | MarieClaire on Facebook Visit us at MarieClaire.comPosted: October 30, 2013 in Uncategorized
1. Has this person given me the kind of commitment I want?
The “C” word–I know. (But the people who have made “commitment” into a “dirty” word are the ones who don’t want to give it to you. Why should what you want be a bad thing?) Now, by commitment, I don’t mean marriage. But maybe you want to know that a guy isn’t going to sleep with other people or date other people before you have sex with him. Maybe you want him to agree to being your full-on boyfriend before you do the deed. If you’d prefer some level of commitment before you have sex–and you don’t have it yet–it’s fine, great, even stupendous to wait until you DO (or don’t) get it. It’s great to know exactly where you stand before you make a decision.
2. Are there too many emotional risks for me?
In the heat of the moment, you may be tempted to take emotional risks. But before you do–maybe even before you go out for the night–ask yourself: Do I feel too emotionally vulnerable to have sex now? Might I feel bad tomorrow–or next week–if I have sex with this person? Am I giving in to this guy even though I’d rather not? If you’ve answered YES to any of these, I’d skip the sex for now.
3. Do we have protection?
Always, always use it. You don’t want STDs or a unplanned baby. If he doesn’t have a condom, send him out to get one, or refuse. It’s that simple. No excuses. And even if you’re dating a guy exclusively, I’d wait until you’ve both had two STD tests–the second one six months after the first–until you try sex without a condom. (It can take as long as 6 months after exposure for certain STDs to show up.)
Think that sounds too strict? Well, consider this: Do you know that a guy who has 365 one-night-stands a year–and uses a condom every time–is less likely to have an STD than a guy who spends the year with only 3 different partners, whom he dates one at a time–but who stops using protection with them after the first month of the relationship?
4. Am I totally wasted, dude?
Skip the sex if you’re drunk or on Ecstasy or whatever. (What do you kids take these days?) It’s not that fun when you’re loaded, anyway. And if you’re taking a hallucinogen, heavy petting–simply stroking someone’s hair or arms–is fun enough, no?
(Not that I’m encouraging you guys to trip on acid or anything. In fact, I did my fair share of psychotropic drugs back in the day, and after all that I’ve subsequently read about the permanent damage to your brain, your spinal cord fluid and all the rest, I SURE wish I hadn’t. IT WASN’T WORTH IT. But if you’re gonna do it anyway, don’t have sex, too!)
5. Can I trust this person?
Don’t just hope for the best. If a potential sexual partner has pressured you, embarrassed you, insulted you or hurt you, step back so I can get in there and punch him. Hee haw–only kidding. But seriously: Don’t have sex with him if he has. Have sex with him only if you feel completely comfortable–and you can trust him 100%.
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